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Why Nothing Beats a Dad in a White T-Shirt and Red Speedos

There’s something utterly magnetic about a man in a simple white T-shirt and a pair of speedos. It’s minimal, unpretentious, and yet, it screams sex in the most deliciously confident way. And if that man happens to be a dad, with a little soft tummy and a bum that bounces just so… well, let’s be…

The Freedom of Croatian Dads: Unbothered, Unfiltered, Unashamed

Coastal Croatia, particularly Istria County, showcases a unique masculinity among local dads who embody a comfortable, unselfconscious existence. They carry out everyday tasks in minimal attire, exuding a nonchalant attitude towards nudity. This relaxed, unpolished lifestyle offers visitors a refreshing perspective on body acceptance and grounded masculinity, blending effortlessly with the region’s natural beauty.

Istria Rising: Croatia’s New Paradise for Men Who Crave Beauty

There’s a quiet shift happening on the Adriatic. While the usual gay hotspots fight for attention, Istria County is emerging as something different — a slower, richer, more sensual paradise for men who want beauty in every form. Yes, the men are beautiful. In small coastal towns and inland villages, you’ll see strong Croatian dads…

Why It’s Natural for Gay Men to Notice Each Other’s Shape — In Speedos, Briefs or Grey Sweatpants

The piece explores how gay men perceive the male body, emphasising visibility over objectification. It argues that being comfortable around various body types fosters body confidence and camaraderie, dismantling unrealistic standards often presented in media. In a supportive environment, bodies are celebrated in their natural state, promoting acceptance and ease.

The Straight Dad Who Felt Completely at Home

When a straight dad booked a few nights with us in our Zagreb apartment, there was no tension, no awkward adjustments. He arrived relaxed. That’s really all there was to it. We explained the vibe as always: men only, nudity friendly, no pressure, no performance. Be yourself. Explore the city. Join the conversation—or don’t. It…

Travel Is Not a Race. It Is a Feeling.

When blokes book a trip, especially to somewhere like Croatia, they often arrive with a checklist. Old towns. Museums. Churches. Restaurants. Beaches. Sunrise hikes. Sunset drinks. Tick. Tick. Tick. And yes, culture matters. Swimming matters. Seeing the place properly matters. But if you rush it, you miss the point. Travel is not about proving you…

Man Bulge Everybody Already Knows

Let’s be real everybody already knows it’s there One of the funniest things about running Blokes Base in Croatia is watching new guests arrive and slowly figure out just how relaxed locals are about bodies and nudity. Men come here from all over wearing speedos or nothing at all and spend their first day tiptoeing…

You Don’t Have to Be Gay to Join Our Tours

You Just Need to Be Comfortable in Your Own Skin People often assume our tours are “just for gay men”. And yes, most of our guests are gay. But being gay isn’t a requirement. What is required? A sense of humour.A love of sunshine and sea.And a willingness to embrace your body — bulge and…

Istria Like a Local: Gay Men’s Guide to Hidden Beaches, Hilltop Towns, and Fun

Istria’s breathtaking coastline offers more than meets the eye, providing an intimate experience for visitors keen on exploring hidden gems. Local adventures include secluded beaches like Rabac and Plomin Luka, where sunbathers often sport revealing swimwear, enhancing the playful atmosphere. The region’s charming hilltop villages are rich in history and artisanal delights, promising authentic local…

Our fave Gay movies

At Blokes Base, the terrace overlooking the Adriatic provides an ideal setting to enjoy a curated selection of gay-themed films, blending laughter, romance, and suspense. The top picks include “Mambo Italiano,” showcasing chaotic family love; “The Sum of Us,” which offers a humorous view on father-son relationships; “The Birdcage,” a flamboyant comedic experience; “Stranger by…

Best Gay Books to Read at Blokes Base

At Blokes Base in Istria, the enchanting setting invites guests to relax with a selection of engaging gay literature. Recommended reads include “Invisible Boys” by Holden Sheppard, a relatable coming-of-age tale; “Holding” by Graham Norton, rich in emotion; “Boyfriend Material” by Alexis Hall, which guarantees laughter; and “Call Me by Your Name” by André Aciman,…

Why We Started Blokes Journey and Why We Chose This Wild Coast

At first glance, you might think you understand exactly why we created Blokes Journey. Two gay men. A sunny apartment. Tours filled with swimming, wandering and wine. Blokes padding around in swimmers that reveal a little more than expected. That easy confidence. That relaxed summer energy. And yes, we appreciate all of that. We love…

Spring in Istria: Art, Culture, and Sun

Istria in spring is pure magic. The crowds haven’t arrived yet, the air is warm but not overwhelming, and every little hilltop town feels like it’s waiting just for you. For lovers of art, culture, and a cheeky splash of homoerotic freedom, here’s how to make the most of your Istrian getaway. Explore the Hilltop…

BULGES, DADDIES AND SPEEDO ENERGY IN Istria, CROATIA

Istria, Croatia is not subtle. The Adriatic sparkles. The sun hits hard. And the men here never abandoned tight swimwear. Speedos are not ironic. They are tradition. If you appreciate confident struts, thick thighs, unapologetic outlines and men who genuinely do not care who is looking, this peninsula delivers. Here is where the temperature really…

5 Reasons Stockier Guys Should Rock Speedos in Croatia

Heading to Croatia? Why the Right Speedo Changes Everything Sun. Salt. Stone towns glowing in late afternoon light. The Adriatic stretching out like polished glass. If you’re heading to Croatia, especially along the Istrian coast, this is your moment. And for stockier guys in particular, there is no better way to own that moment than…